The connection between a Queen and a Servant is the heart of the Female-Led Society: only with a confirmed connection can the Queen assign tasks to her Servant and rate his performance. Alongside it there are friendships — casual contacts without any role dynamic.

Note: The screenshots show the German interface — the layout is identical in every language.

Requesting a connection

A Queen's profile with the action buttons

  1. Open the member's profile (via Queens or Servants).
  2. At the top of the profile page you find three buttons:
    • Send message — opens the chat (see Messages).
    • I want to serve the Queen — sends a connection request (as a Servant on a Queen's profile; as a Queen the button is worded accordingly to take on a Servant).
    • I want to be friends — sends a friend request.
  3. Click the button you want. The request goes to the member and waits for confirmation.

Answering requests

  1. Incoming requests appear on your Dashboard.
  2. There you can confirm or decline each request.
  3. After confirmation the connection appears on both profiles — on the Queen's side as "Connected Servant", on the Servant's side under "Serves these queens".

What a connection does

  • The Queen can assign tasks to her connected Servant, rate results and impose educational measures for missed tasks (see Tasks).
  • The Queen's profile publicly shows who serves her — including the number of completed tasks.
  • The Servant's activities appear in the Protocol and determine his rank in the leaderboard.

Friendships

Friendships are independent of roles and connections: confirmed friends appear on your profile under Friends. This way you also stay in touch with members you do not have a service relationship with.