The Chastity area records chastity as a process: who is locked up for how long, who ordered it, and what happened along the way. It does not replace your agreement — it makes it traceable, with times, comments and, if you want, photos.
It requires a confirmed connection between queen and servant (see Connections & friendships). Without one the server refuses to create anything, and the form only shows a note saying so.
We stay with Femdom and Submissive: she locks him up over the weekend.
Two ways into a lock-up
It exists in both directions, and the only difference is the starting state:
| Queen | Servant | |
|---|---|---|
| Button | Plan the servant's lock-up | Request a lock-up |
| Status afterwards | Approved — effective immediately | Requested — waiting for the queen |
The queen orders; the servant asks. What he enters is a proposal that she approves or declines.
Creating a lock-up
- Open Chastity in the left menu.
- Click Plan the servant's lock-up or Request a lock-up at the top right.
- Servant or Queen — pick the other person. Only confirmed connections are offered.
- Start — the date and time the lock-up is planned to begin.
- End — date and time. Leaving it empty means open-ended: the lock-up runs until the queen unlocks it. The list then shows Open-ended.
- Label — a short name, e.g. weekend. It appears wherever the lock-up shows up later.
- Comment before the lock-up — optional; whatever belongs at the outset.
- Photo documentation — None, Allowed or Required (see below).
- Publicly visible — when checked, the lock-up appears on the servant's profile and in the activity feed. Unchecked, it stays between you two and carries the label Private in the list.
- Lock up or Request.
Photo documentation and visibility are the queen's decision. If the servant sets them in his request they are a wish — she can change both when approving.
The five states
| Status | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Requested | The servant has proposed a period; the queen has not decided yet. |
| Declined | She turned the request down — with a reason. |
| Approved | The period is agreed, but nothing is locked yet. |
| Locked | Currently running. |
| Ended | Unlocked; the duration is final. |
Answering, locking, unlocking
All buttons sit right on the lock-up's card in the overview.
- Approve / Decline — the queen only, and only while Requested. Declining requires a reason.
- Lock now — while Approved. Either side may trigger it: who holds the lock is a question of practice, not of software. A comment is possible; if photo documentation is required, the first photo belongs here. A servant can only be locked once at a time: if another lock-up is still running for him, the button is replaced by the note The servant is still in another lock-up. Unlock that one first, then this one can begin. Planning and requesting remain possible meanwhile.
- Unlock — the queen, only while Locked. Her closing comment is optional.
- Unlock early — the servant himself, only while Locked. He must give a reason for unlocking; it becomes his closing comment. The queen is notified, and the entry permanently carries the label Unlocked early by the servant.
- Write closing comment — the servant, after it has been unlocked. His comment is the one place where he records how it went from his side.
Only Lock now and Unlock create the actual times. Planned and actual are kept apart — and that is exactly what the duration on the card is calculated from.
Photo documentation
The setting in the form decides what is possible afterwards:
- None — no photos can be attached; the detail page says so explicitly.
- Allowed — photos are possible but not expected.
- Required — the lock-up is meant to be documented; the first photo is requested right when locking.
Every photo needs a caption (required, up to 300 characters), such as day 3: first pick the photo — it appears as a preview —, then enter the caption. On the detail page the Add photo button does the upload; with Lock now on the card the photo goes up together with the locking. Below every photo stand caption and date. A photo can be removed individually by whoever uploaded it, or by the queen. Deleting the whole lock-up takes the documentation with it — the confirmation dialog says how many photos are affected.
Overview and timeline
The Chastity page is split in two:
- Current — everything requested, approved or currently locked.
- History — ended and declined entries.
Above them sits the timeline: an axis of every lock-up that has taken place or is still ahead. The legend distinguishes Planned, Actually locked and Now; declined entries do not appear there — they never happened. With many entries the axis shows the most recent ones and notes how many it leaves out.
Clicking the label opens the detail page with all comments, the full documentation and — for the queen — the fields for adjusting things. The detail page is accessible only to the two people involved; third parties see a public lock-up only as a period on the profile and in the activity feed.
On the dashboard and the profile
- The dashboard shows the running or upcoming lock-up to both sides.
- If Publicly visible is set, the servant's profile shows a Chastity section: currently locked since …, with earlier periods below. Only the day is shown there, never the time of day.
- The activity feed lists Locked up and Lock-up ended as separate entries.
Deleting
Either side can delete a lock-up at any time via the ✕ — in any state. Unlike unlocking, nothing is left behind: the entry disappears together with its documentation from the overview, the profile and the timeline. What should stay on record gets unlocked, not deleted.