The FLR Review is a questionnaire for your connection. Queen and servant answer it separately, each from their own role. Only when both have submitted do the answers appear side by side, so you can look at them together. If you repeat the review from time to time, you also see how your connection develops.

It requires a confirmed connection (see Connections & friendships). There is no FLR Review with the AI Queen.

We stay with Femdom and Submissive: after a few months, they want to take stock of where they stand.

Who sees the answers

  • Only the two of you. Through the app, administrators have no access either, and the AI Queen learns nothing about it.
  • Everything stays hidden until submission. While the round is open, Femdom does not see Submissive's answers and vice versa. All that shows is whether the other has already submitted. That way nobody can adjust their answer to the other's.
  • When the connection ends, everything is gone. If one of you dissolves the connection, blocks the other or deletes their account, all rounds are permanently deleted, including completed ones. The confirmation when dissolving points this out.

Starting a round

  1. Open FLR Review in the left menu. Each of your connections is listed there with its status.
  2. Click Start new round next to the connection you want.

Either side may start. Only one round per connection can be open at a time. The other side gets a notification and finds the round on the dashboard under FLR Review: it's your turn.

You can also reach the review through the link on the connection in the Connections tab of your profile and through the FLR Review button on the other person's profile.

Answering the questionnaire

The 22 questions are sorted by topic. Click a topic's row to open it; the number beside it says how many questions are still open there.

Topic What it covers
Roles & dynamic Does your role still fit, where would you like more or less guidance?
Satisfaction & development What is going well, what should change, what you want to try
Communication & closeness Do you feel heard, is there frustration, how close do you feel to the other?
Everyday life & dominance Does the dynamic hold up day to day, how are tasks carried out, how noticeable is dominance?
Eroticism & intensity How you experience the erotic side and how much intensity you would like
Limits & safety Are limits clear and respected, is anything weighing on you, would you like a safeword?

The questions are tailored to your role. Femdom reads "Does the leading role (still) feel right and fulfilling to you?", Submissive "Does the serving role (still) feel right and fulfilling to you?".

Each question comes with a rating, a comment or both:

  • Rating — 0 to 5 stars. 0 stars means does not apply at all, 5 stars fully applies. Nothing is preselected. 0 stars also counts as an answer.
  • Comment — free text, up to 2000 characters.

All answers are voluntary; you may leave blank whatever does not apply. Everything saves automatically, so you can stop at any time and come back later via Continue answering.

Adding your own questions

If something is missing, add more under Your own questions:

  1. Open the Your own questions topic and click Add question.
  2. Enter your question, 300 characters at most.
  3. Under Answer as, choose what goes with it: Rating and comment, just Rating or just Comment.
  4. Click Add.

Good to know:

  • Both of you see the question in the same wording, exactly as you wrote it. Texts are not translated.
  • It stays in future rounds too, so you can see how it develops. Up to 20 questions of your own are possible per round.
  • Only you as the author can remove it, via the bin icon on the question. It is then also gone from future rounds; earlier rounds keep it.
  • Adding and removing only works as long as you have not submitted yourself.
  • If the other side has already submitted, your new question reopens that submission. The answers are kept; the other side gets a notification, answers the new question and submits again.

The 22 standard questions cannot be changed or removed, otherwise the rounds could no longer be compared.

Submitting

When you are done, click Submit at the bottom. The confirmation says how many questions are still open. After that you see your own answers and a note that the other side is still to come.

If you want to change something, click Withdraw submission. That works as long as the round is not completed. As soon as the other side has submitted too, it is completed and can no longer be changed.

Either side can remove an open round you no longer need via Delete round. This also deletes the other side's answers so far. Completed rounds cannot be deleted individually.

The comparison

Once you have both submitted, the round shows your answers side by side, sorted by topic: the Queen on the left, the servant on the right, stacked on a phone.

  • Since you read the questions in different wording, the question put to the other side appears right above their answer wherever it differs.
  • If your stars for a question are 3 or more apart, it is marked: You are far apart on this one. That is not a verdict, but a good reason to talk.

It helps most to go through the comparison together and talk about what surprises you.

Following the development

Rounds and development shows all rounds with the other person. From two completed rounds onwards, Development appears below: for each question with a rating, a small chart shows both sides' stars across the rounds, the Queen in red with round dots, the servant in blue with square ones. Hover over the chart or tap it to see the date and values of that round.

If a rating is missing in a round, the line breaks there. Open rounds are not included.

Notifications

You get a push notification when the other side starts a round, when a new question reopens your submission and when the other side submits after you, which completes the round. The notification contains no questions and no answers. You can turn it off in the account tab of your profile under notifications. There is no email for it.

In short

  • You both answer separately, and only after both have submitted do you see everything side by side.
  • Only the two of you have access, and everything is deleted when the connection ends.
  • Your own questions extend the questionnaire and carry over to future rounds.
  • From two completed rounds onwards, the development shows you what has changed.