Your profile is what other members see of you — in the search lists, on the map and on your profile page. The more complete it is, the better search and first contact work.

Note: The screenshots show the German interface — the layout is identical in every language.

Opening your profile

  1. Click your name or profile picture at the top right.
  2. Your profile page opens in edit mode — you can fill in all fields directly.

Your own profile in edit mode

Filling in the basics

  • Display name — the name other members see you under.
  • Date of birth — is not shown directly; others only see your age.
  • Motto — a short sentence that appears on your profile and in lists.
  • I am — your role (Queen or Servant).
  • Sexual orientation, height, weight, kids, smoking, alcohol — optional details that appear on your profile page under "Details".

All details except the display name are optional. Decide for yourself how much you want to share.

Setting your location

Your location matters: the search lists (Queens/Servants), the map, Dating and Events are sorted by distance from you.

  1. In the Location section, click Detect location automatically — or
  2. type your city or postal code into the Enter place or postal code field and pick the match.

Only the place is stored, never your exact address.

Uploading pictures

  • Profile picture — click the round image placeholder and choose a photo. You can adjust the crop while uploading.
  • Header picture — click Change header at the top right of the header area to set the large cover image of your profile.
  • Gallery — further down the profile page you can upload additional pictures to your gallery and change their order.

You can mark gallery pictures as protected — other members only see them once you grant them access (see the Messages guide).

Wishes and preferences

Depending on your role, you also state what you are looking for — for example desired services and practiced educational measures. These details appear as tags on your profile and help other members judge whether you are a good match.

Language

On your profile page you also set your preferred language. The app interface then automatically appears in that language.

Next step

With a complete profile you are ready to discover other members: Finding members.