In the Dating area, Queens and Servants publish date listings — from the classic FLR partner search to a concrete meet-up. You can find suitable dates near you or post your own.

Note: The screenshots show the German interface — the layout is identical in every language.

Browsing dates

Dating area with date listings

  1. Open Dating in the left menu.
  2. Set the search location: Detect location automatically or Enter place or postal code — the listings are sorted by distance.
  3. Each card shows the title, author (with role and rank), date, distance and the listing text.
  4. Click a listing to read it in full and contact the author — for example via message.

Creating your own date

  1. Click + New date at the top right.
  2. Give your date a meaningful title (e.g. "Looking for FLR / FEMDOM in Berlin").
  3. In the text, describe who or what you are looking for — the more specific, the better the responses.
  4. Save the listing. It now appears for other members in the Dating area, sorted by their distance from you.

Managing your listing

You can edit or delete your own listings at any time — just open the listing in the Dating area.